By Danny Redbard
Look, you little idiots.
As your unintended representative of open-relationships & living as a tantric fuck-boi…
I have to have a word with you.
I’m mad at you for being so freaking basic when it comes to the art of intimacy.
Where to begin, Dan…
Monogamy as a standard of purity is bullshit.
Most of your THINK you’re monogamous, but you’re not.
It means “one marriage.”
Which back in the day meant, “1 partner for life.”
Have you had more than 1 partner?
More than 1 marriage?
You’re non-monogamous.
Have you ever cheated on a partner?
You’re non-monogamous.
Have you ever welcomed someone into your bed with you & a partner?
You’re non-monogamous.
If I hear one more person say, “How do you do it? Don’t you get jealous? Oh, I could never let my partner do that with someone else… How do you communicate with all these lovers?”
I do the exact same work as all of you!
I just do it above the board.
You think monogamy means you’re safe, or never going to be triggered, or not going to have to learn to communicate, your partner is never going to feel chemistry with someone else?
You’re kidding yourself.
And how daaaare you think it’s your right to shut down their flirtation for the sake of your fear!
Relationships are the biggest journeys of your life.
It’s not your partners responsibility to keep you fragile.
Gold your partner & yourself to a higher standard of respect.
Stop kidding yourself in thinking that saying you’d never open-relate makes you a more pure, virginal being.
You’re as slutty as the rest of us.
A lot of you just suppress it, shame it, & numb it out with drugs & alcohol. (If you’ve been promiscuous under the influence, I’m talking to you. Your behaviour is evidence of your beliefs that are lies).
You’re telling me there’s NO ONE out there that you’d be slutty for?
You’re lying to yourself.
You simply haven’t put yourself in the right situations.
It’s very easy to be a good little boy/girl when you’re at home reading a book.
Go socialise with friends that touch you all flirty & sensual & tell me that you’re not having sexual thoughts of being with more than 1 partner.
Why is this valuable to acknowledge?
Because… If you’re suppressing shame in this area of your life, it’s showing up in other areas. (Shame runs the belief, “There’s something wrong with me,” unconsciously in your mind & body).
Other areas it’ll show up. Check in:
Where are you keeping yourself small in your business, sales, in your art, in your voice?
If you’re hiding your sexuality, you’re hiding everywhere.
Be real.
Some of you with “business problems,” actually need to go & have a proper orgasm.
Orgasm until you freaking weep with tears.
If you think I’m joking, this might be your 1st time on Earth.
Go & get fucked.
I dare you, you timid, frigid, whining, fearful sook, to go out there & flirt with the world.
I’m done with you all playing small.
I want you all to flirt with abandon; share art like everyone is missing out if you don’t; & offer your business & magic to the world like it’s the most important legacy that you’re leaving on the planet.
Hurry up, frigid fuck.
This is your prime time of life.
The NOW.
There’s no better time to flirt with the world.
